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Womanly Wednesday: A Guest Post On How Adoption Saved My Life

October 7, 2015 By Lauren

Welcome to this week’s Womanly Wednesday! Today’s post is by Trisha of The Ham And Cheese Of It, a blogger I’ve come to enjoy a lot over these last few months.  It breaks my heart to know so many kids go through traumatic situations like this but I am so encouraged by men and women like Roxanne who step into that situation and offer hope, love, and grace.  Thanks for sharing your story, Trisha! 

I am so grateful to have been chosen to participate in Womanly Wednesday. I have very much enjoyed reading the passionate, heart wrenching stories from the women that have contributed to Lauren’s Womanly Wednesday series. When she asked her readers for guest posts I felt conflicted, as I am sure many of my predecessors before me felt as well. But my adoring husband made a great point. What if someone else is in my shoes? Well, as always he had a great point.

My biological mother is a felon, drug addict and even though she has never been charged, she has, on more than one occasion, alluded to the fact that she may or may not have been a participant in a murder. She has also been arrested for money laundering, credit card fraud, domestic abuse (she shot her second husband in the leg), arson and intent to distribute. The list goes on and on and on. I could fill this entire story up with just her legal woes. But I am not here to talk about her. I am here to talk about a woman named Roxanne.

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Neutral Fall Sign With Decoupage Letters Tutorial

October 6, 2015 By Lauren

For as long as I can remember, I’ve been a directions follower.  Give me a recipe, a set of steps for a project, or detailed instructions and I am a happy camper.  Following other people’s directions is much easier than forging my own path because if I fail, there’s someone else to blame besides myself.  Because I was just following directions, right? There’s no way it could be user error (please note the sarcasm here).

Since I got married and moved away from all of my artistic and creative friends from college (whom I love dearly), I’ve had to learn to trust my own creativity.  I’ve started making dinner without checking a recipe or jumping into a craft with nothing but some random supplies from Hobby Lobby and an idea that popped into my head.

And you know what I’m learning, guys? My ideas aren’t half bad.  Sometimes I come up with really yummy recipes like this mocha brownies recipe or fun crafts like this fall burlap wreath I made a few weeks ago.  Turns out I’ve got some good ideas in this head of mine.  Who woulda thunk?

This neutral fall sign is a unique project to add some cozy charm to your fall decor! And so easy too!

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Seven Practical Tips To Grow And Deepen Your Adult Friendships

October 5, 2015 By Lauren

When I wrote a post a few months back about six reasons I struggled to find friends after college, it quickly became one of my most popular posts.  Women from all life stages commented and shared how hard it had been for them to find and grow authentic, deep friendships, especially in the years of raising littles.  We struggle to find not only the time to pursue women friendships, but also to find ways to grow these friendships into deep, lasting relationships we can rely on instead of just acquaintances.

Even so, I believe that having women in our lives with whom we can share the good and the hard is extremely important.  When I don’t have female friends, I’m quick to put the heavy burden of filling all my relational needs on my husband or family, and that’s just not fair to them or me.  Growing friendships is hard but worth it and these practical tips to grow and deepen your adult friendships are things I’ve seen to be helpful as I navigate the confusing world of grownup friendships.

These practical tips to deepen your friendships are so simple but so helpful!

 

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Five on Friday: Teacher Shoutouts And A Happy Tummy

October 2, 2015 By Lauren

Happy Friday, friends! This week I’ve been grateful for cool mornings, pumpkin coffee (#noshame), after school naps, and slower days while my students worked independently on a project.  Here are some updates from our week!

1) Teacher of the Month

Time for a not so humble brag…my students voted me for our school’s teacher of the month! It’s silly, but this was super encouraging in a few weeks where I’ve felt kind of overwhelmed with balancing work, life, and blogging.  And when your middle schoolers vote you for teacher of the month and you get a cool trophy, is there any other appropriate response besides taking a selfie? No, ma’am, there is not.  You’re welcome. #lemmetakeaselfie #middleschooler4lyfe

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Womanly Wednesday: A Guest Post On Mothering Through The Unexpected

September 30, 2015 By Lauren

Welcome to this week’s Womanly Wednesday! I met today’s guest poster when I moved to Kansas City a few years back.  She and her husband head up Young Life in the North Kansas City area and from the first moment I met her, I was so impressed by her wisdom, passion, and the way she deeply loves and fights for her family.  Her journey of learning to support her youngest son has been beautiful to watch, and I know mamas everywhere will relate to what it looks like to fight for our kids’ hearts and futures when all the obstacles seem stacked against us.  You can read more from Melissa over at her blog! Thanks for sharing your heart and your story, Melissa! 

I had my third child on my 31st birthday. Up until this moment motherhood was relatively easy for me. It was manageable and good. My oldest were 23 months apart. Life was predictable. I had a handle on this season of motherhood and babies. I wandered into this third child thing completely unprepared.

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How To Make A Fall Burlap Bubble Wreath

September 29, 2015 By Lauren

UPDATE: Make sure to check out our 2016 cozy and neutral fall home tour to see this wreath and the other fun touches I added to give our house some autumn spirit! 

This is our first year in an actual house (you can check out the tour of our home here!) and I’m so excited to start creating some decorations that we can hopefully use in our home for years to come.  The decorations my mom used to put up for each holiday are such a big part of my childhood memories of those holidays and I want to create some of those same traditions for our kiddos (even if the first one is still in my belly and unable to appreciate our awesome fall decorations quite yet).

This rustic fall burlap bubble wreath is simple, beautiful, easy to make, and involves just a few materials. Check out this post for the easy step-by-step tutorial!

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When Pregnancy Feels Underwhelming: An Honest Confession

September 28, 2015 By Lauren

Oh man.  Are you ready for one of those posts that comes straight from the heart, free of lists of how to improve your life or a five step plan to move forward? I’ve spent a lot of time on this blog and in real life encouraging people to be real, to share their deepest struggles, to continually fight the battle against shame by doing things like seeking counseling and asking God for big, scary things. And I figured it was my turn to do a little sharing about what my last few months have looked like.

Let’s get right to it: this whole being pregnant thing is rocking my world emotionally.  Not as much in the I’m hormonal all the time and cry at cheesy commercials kind of way (although that’s kind of true), but more in the way that I’ve been underwhelmed by my emotions these last few months.

Pregnancy isn't always glowing and happy and loving, and this posts gives us permission to give ourselves grace.

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Five on Friday: Family Dinners and Amazing Guest Posts

September 25, 2015 By Lauren

Happy Friday, friends! It is officially fall, even though the weather still feels more like summer, and I know I’m excited for all the stereotypical but still wonderful things that fall brings.  I’m excited for time this weekend for some fall crafting and cool mornings! Here are some updates from our week as we continue to transition from the lazy days of summer to the busier days of fall.

1) Reading, reading, and more reading!

I made the decision a few months ago to limit my Netflix and try to read more (and by that I mean I ran out of new shows, rewatched every episode of Gilmore Girls, and then gave up on finding something else to watch).  I finished For the Love by Jen Hatmaker this week and she had me laughing out loud on our couch (especially her rants about how leggings/tights aren’t pants – wish I could share that one with my 8th graders).  This week I’m starting Emily Freeman’s It’s Simply Tuesday and can’t wait to wrestle with the idea of what it looks like to find joy in my small, ordinary days.

Its Simply Tuesday Emily Freeman

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Sexual Assault, Suicide, and Finding Healing

September 24, 2015 By Lauren

Even though today isn’t a Womanly Wednesday, when my friend Brittany emailed me about sharing her story my answer was a resounding YES.  I’ve known this girl since we were in middle school and remember walking with her through lots of what she describes in this post.  The realities of sexual assault and its devastating consequences are absolutely heartbreaking and I hate that one in four college women experience this to some degree.  Brittany, thank you for sharing your story of pain, darkness, and ultimately, healing.  You are more than a survivor – you are a radiant, courageous, and strong woman and it’s an honor to know you.  

It’s been seven years and as each year goes by I tell less and less people because although it is apart of my past it does not define me.

Seven years ago, I was sexually assaulted at my first college campus. I refer to it as “the incident.” Yes, I was drinking. Well, to say that is an understatement, I was wasted, smashed; I could barely stand. I was wearing a cute party dress with tights and high heels because like any other 18 year old who wanted to party, I was dressed for the night.

Sexual Assault, Suicide, and Finding Healing Brittany

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Womanly Wednesday: A Guest Post On Being “Too Smart” To Be A Stay At Home Mom

September 23, 2015 By Lauren

Welcome to this week’s Womanly Wednesday! Today’s poster, Anna, is writing beautifully about a topic that is so close to my heart.  As Jordan and I move toward growing our family, I’ve wrestled a lot with what it looks like to use my education and intellect and also raise a family.  I love how Anna makes me feel like this is normal struggle and that choosing a family over a career isn’t a “waste” of my education.  I hope you enjoy today’s post as much as I did! 

This may seem backwards to you, but I think that doing well in school can sometimes make you feel trapped. That’s how it worked for me anyways. Usually you would imagine that people who make good grades can go on to do anything they want, right?

But what if what they want is not “good enough?”

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