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Sexual Assault, Suicide, and Finding Healing

September 24, 2015 By Lauren

Even though today isn’t a Womanly Wednesday, when my friend Brittany emailed me about sharing her story my answer was a resounding YES.  I’ve known this girl since we were in middle school and remember walking with her through lots of what she describes in this post.  The realities of sexual assault and its devastating consequences are absolutely heartbreaking and I hate that one in four college women experience this to some degree.  Brittany, thank you for sharing your story of pain, darkness, and ultimately, healing.  You are more than a survivor – you are a radiant, courageous, and strong woman and it’s an honor to know you.  

It’s been seven years and as each year goes by I tell less and less people because although it is apart of my past it does not define me.

Seven years ago, I was sexually assaulted at my first college campus. I refer to it as “the incident.” Yes, I was drinking. Well, to say that is an understatement, I was wasted, smashed; I could barely stand. I was wearing a cute party dress with tights and high heels because like any other 18 year old who wanted to party, I was dressed for the night.

Sexual Assault, Suicide, and Finding Healing Brittany

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Filed Under: Relationships, Womanly Wednesday Tagged With: Sexual Assault, Suicide, Womanly Wednesday

Womanly Wednesday: A Guest Post On Wrestling With Mental Illness

September 16, 2015 By Lauren

Welcome to this week’s Womanly Wednesday! I “met” today’s guest poster through one of those crazy small-world connections.  I recognized her unique last name in a blogging group and asked her if she knew an old friend that Jordan and I had done Young Life summer staff several years back.  It turns out she had married that old friend! I’ve loved getting to know her via email and blogging these last few weeks and love her deep heart to find gratitude and joy in the midst of brokenness. I’m so grateful to have her sharing her heart on the blog today and hope you’ll head over to check out her awesome blog, The Demczack Days, for more of her thoughts on life, marriage, and faith! 

My eyes welled up with tears. I started to sweat. My head pounded. My vision became blurry. My body began to shake unforgivingly. My mind raced with nothing. I felt light-headed, dizzy. Could I breathe? I felt like I was choking. My stomach sank. Salty tears spilled over and down my cheeks aggressively. I took sharp, loud breaths. I sat on the floor, not caring that I was at work.

Womanly Wednesday Wrestling With Mental Illness

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Filed Under: Womanly Wednesday Tagged With: Depression, Mental Illness, Womanly Wednesday

Womanly Wednesday: A Guest Post On Eating Disorders And Second Chances

August 5, 2015 By Lauren

Thanks for stopping by for this week’s Womanly Wednesday!  This is one of my favorite parts of the week where different women bravely and vulnerably share their stories. This week, we have the honor of hearing from a lovely new blogging friend named Liz.  Liz writes about marriage, motherhood, and life over at Sundays With Sophie, and her blog is definitely one you need to add to your must-read list!   I love how bravely and honestly she is sharing about her journey of wrestling with an eating disorder, and I have a feeling you will too.  

Hi, I’m Liz!  This is what you know about me, mama to Sophie, and wife to Kyle.  I’m the sole writer of Sundays with Sophie.  Mama by day, blogger by night and wife on the weekend.  But, here’s something you don’t know about me.  Something that I haven’t talked about before, something I’m bravely telling the world.  I’ve suffered from both Anorexia Nervosa.  It happened quickly and quietly.  This is my story.

Womanly Wednesday Sundays With Sophie

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Filed Under: Womanly Wednesday Tagged With: Eating Disorders, Heart Stuff, Motherhood, Womanly Wednesday

Womanly Wednesday: A Guest Post on Finding Hope In Illness

July 15, 2015 By Lauren

Welcome to this week’s Womanly Wednesday!  This week’s post is by the lovely Liz Sievert (formerly Liz Powell).  I met Liz through a church small group last year and was immediately struck by how friendly, caring, and pretty much hilarious she is.  She has a steady wisdom to her, the kind of wisdom that comes when someone has wrestled deeply with the Lord about who she is and come to the hard-won conclusion that she is fully known and deeply loved no matter what. It has been a joy to get to know Liz these last few years and it is an honor to have her sharing her words on the blog today!  Also, be sure to check out Liz’s blog for more beautiful stories about her everyday adventures in life, faith, and marriage.

“Wholeness is brokenness owned and thereby healed.”  -Brennan Manning

Womanly Wednesday Hope In Physical Brokenness Bride

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Womanly Wednesday: A Guest Post On Anxiety

July 1, 2015 By Lauren

Thanks for stopping by for this week’s Womanly Wednesday Guest Post! Today’s post is by my friend Jenny Hall.  I met Jenny (a fellow California girl!) before we started our freshman year at Davidson College, and have learned so much from the brave ways she has reached out to other people and to God to wrestle with deep questions of who she is and what it looks like to live her faith and her life well.  She is an incredibly passionate person who loves deeply, feels deeply, and runs after the things she loves with everything she has.   I am so grateful to have her vulnerable, funny, and beautiful words on the blog today.  

Womanly Wednesday Anxiety Oxford Jenny

There was a time in my life when I thought a lot about my armpits. I planned my outfits carefully. Sleeveless tops were best, obviously, but if I had to wear sleeves then I most definitely needed a sweatshirt on hand – even in 100 degree Southern California summers. It takes a lot to sweat through a sweatshirt.

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Filed Under: Womanly Wednesday Tagged With: Anxiety, Depression, Faith, Heart Stuff, Womanly Wednesday

Womanly Wednesday: A Guest Post On Being Torn

June 10, 2015 By Lauren

Today’s Womanly Wednesday post is by a woman whose friendship has impacted me deeply.  Taylor Thomas is not only an amazing artist (check out her website here), but also a compassionate friend whose joy and authentic desire to know and love people show me Jesus on a daily basis.  She asks the best questions, has the most ridiculous sense of humor (and the highest pitched squeals of joy), and expresses the deepest, most broken parts of her heart more poetically and honestly than anyone I know.  She was the co-maid of honor at my wedding with Haley George, and is closer to my heart than just about anyone.  It  is an honor to have her share in this space today.  

Womanly Wednesday Taylor Main pic

Being torn is being okay.

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Womanly Wednesday: A Guest Post on Abuse and Rescue

June 3, 2015 By Lauren

As part of our Womanly Wednesday series, I’ll be sharing guests posts by different women who are bravely putting their hearts and stories out there for you to read.  And friends, this girl is the bravest.  I met Annie my freshman year in college, and her story is one of the clearest examples of God’s relentless pursuit of our broken, hurting hearts.  She is radiant, with a joy and heart for people and adventures that absolutely shines and lights up whatever room she walks in.  I bawled reading this post about how she found healing and hope in the midst of abuse and pain, and it is an honor to have her sharing her heart on the blog today.  

Womanly Wednesday

Mine is a story of abuse and utter despair.  It is a story of hopelessness and pursuit of worldly success that has no ultimate value; a chasing after the wind.  It is a story of redemption, of God’s saving grace, of the Lord’s unfailing pursuit of a girl who bolted the other way – and his ability to capture and comfort even the most broken-hearted.

Maybe it’s a story you can relate to – perhaps not with the nitty gritty details, but with the heart of the matter.  The insecurities.  The shame.  The confidence in no one and nothing but myself.  The futile attempts to pick myself up by my bootstraps, without realizing that I had no firm foundation to place those boots on.  The slow realization and denial of the simple fact that if your efforts are all that you rely on, you won’t stand for long when the terrain beneath those boots morphs to shifting, sinking sand.

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Filed Under: Relationships, Womanly Wednesday Tagged With: abuse, Faith, Heart Stuff, Jesus, Rescue, Womanly Wednesday






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